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Weāve all known that nosy kid in school who loved to tease and taunt us for having a broken shoe, or funny hair, or being on the heavier side. Yes, we all hated him. Many of us have also know adults who taunt out of habit, maybe not because they mean harm, but because taunting is a part of their behavior now. If you are one of them, this post is especially for you!
Two days back I was at a friendās sonās Birthday party. Ā She stays with her in-laws and her parents were going to come to the event as well. Both sets of parents are generally very kind-heartedĀ and good-natured people. But occasionally there comeās an awkward statement or two.
So this Friendās parents arrived, and the moment they came, they sought to meet with my Friendās In-laws, who greeted them warmly and asked after their health. All wasā¦
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what a lovely topic you have picked up. It’s something we all do. And some simply love it, it’s their favorite past time. I’m sure it’ll take lot’s of effort to refrain from it. My personal thoughts are that it is also infectious! If are recipient of taunts, you are most likely to pass it back….
Happy to come across such lovely write ups from you, Pradita!
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Thank you so much. Though I hope that you are at neither end if this problem. Yes, it can be very contagious and I have first hand experience on being at both the giving and receiving end. It leaves a bad memory either way. Glad you liked it š
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To be honest, when you interact with variety of people, there’s no escaping… either ways. Most of it unintentional though! You are right, negative things will always leave bad “after-taste”.
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Glad you agree with me. Unintentionally we may do wrong but the moment you realise it, you should correct it or a misunderstanding gets created which could cost you that relationship. It’s always good to make things right.
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Amazing so well put through. So many of us face this situation in life even we must change our attitude towards these kinds of bullies by giving them a deaf ear whether they wish to change or not. Nicely penned article. š
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Thanks a lot. Yes,as someone who’s at the receiving end of taunts, the best thing you can do to a taunter is ignore them completely. Don’t stoop to thier level even. Just ignore! There’s no better way of getting them straightened out
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Well said. that is their apt punishment. š Do check out a challenge that I am hosting on The Glitters Of Life. Do participate if you like it. š
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A challenge? Lemme check it out. I don’t know if I honestly have time this month to participate in any challenges or NANOWRIMO thingies but I’ll definitely read your posts š
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It’s a fortnight fable challenge š
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I’ll check this out now š
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An interesting topic to write on.
This has to be stopped at the correct time.
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That’s true, not only for the sake of the one being taunted, but also for those who taunt. otherwise it becomes a behavioral issue. I have one person in my family who is ruined because of her acidic tongue. It’s become entrenched in her behavior so badly that now she cannot put two sentences together without having a taunt in the middle, EVEN WHEN she means good. And someone points it out to her she thinks they’re lying because in her eyes she’s the most well-spoken woman she knows. This is a very serious behavioral problem that many people think will pass with age, but it doesn’t. So if you know someone who does this, please ask them to stop.
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I understand this is a serious issue and only the people who want to change can change this behaviour.
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True that, unfortunately
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Only if we could help more.
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Ohhhhh, then they would be entirely different people. Too bad, their own loss š
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I know.:-)
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There are a lot of such people out there. A good topic to write on.
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Yes, there are. And i hope they change. Nobody wants a bully around. Thanks for reading š
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My pleasure!
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I always used to compliment people around me, even any small things, about their dress or accessories , I am satisfied if I can give atleast momentary happiness to them.
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That’s very nice of you. Sometimes people may not deserve it, but if it beyond a amulet to someone’s face, why not let them have that moment of happiness?
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You are right, everyone don’t deserve it. It depends on situation. But trying to avoid any disputes is fair I think. I feel people only close to me can judge me otherwise being difficult to judge is good, that is not reacting same to all people.
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That’s absolutely right š
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š touching article !
I agree with you , when I was in school that time I didn’t bear a single taunt even I made alot fights with my close friend who was much bully šš
That time I was short tempered , I lost my temper lot of times .
Vo un bachhon m SE tha Jo ldne ke Baad fir SE dosti b krne a jate hain š now I have few best friends who are school mate and he is one of them .
Btw I can’t bear if someone is taunting other one because of his/her looks , clothes or body shape
Ok leave it , Mai hmesha apni story start kr deta Hun š
You are doing great and we can say star of candles online š
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Oh were you like that too? It’s surprising coz you don’t seem the kind who would do it. But then that’s in the past. Like mine is. Thank you for your compliment though there’s nothing like me being the star… I’m writing here because they publish very relevant articles. It’s a pleasure writing for Candles Online
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Your welcome di š
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Interesting article Pradita. Oh! now you have decided to follow that movie dialoguešš even I used to make fun of others in my college days because I enjoy when people make comments on me. Later I understood not everyone takes it in right spirit. I have changed now. Now it’s like, I speak softly. I count down numbers when I get angryšš
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Thnaks a lot Jeni. I’m glad you understood that not all people have it in them to take a joke. Good you changed š
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You’re welcome Pradita. It’s been so long I read humour from you.
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š š Yes, I haven’t written humor in a while. That’s odd considering I started my stories from that genre. Good you reminded me, maybe I should do it now š
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Yes please. I love your sense of humour. It brings smile automatically unlike where you have to think whether to smile or not.
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Really? I believe that’s only the second time when someone’s told me my humor is good. My husband thinks its crap š š
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Yeah..especially when you bring it in your stories, it’s really good. Just ignore himš he’s just jealous he can’t write like youšš
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Lol! Good advice. I hope he doesn’t see this š
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Same here šš
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Now I’m interested in reading your another series that has humour.šš
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Lol! Series I don’t know if I’ll write again. At least not as long as TINALS and Sticky Situations. BTW, read that. It’s mostly humor. Maybe you’ll like it š
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Yes that’s what I told…the another series, sticky situations.šš i will continue reading that.
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Oh ok cool. And I read your email and it’s oerfectly okay, DOLL šššš
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You absolutely have no idea how happy I’m to see this.ššš
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That’s why I wrote it š
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You’re so sweet, my chocolate cake, chocolate icecream, choco cookiesššš
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Lol! You know all the things that I love š
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Yeah, it’s all the same thing I lovešš
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Hee hee
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Goodnight Pradita.
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Goodnight š
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I was wondering what’s that tinals…this is not a love storyšš
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Yeah. It’s pretty leghty to write š
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